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Having loved this present world....

This phrase has been on my heart lately. It was spoken by Paul about a man named Demas. Most people would say Who? Paul we know... but who is this Demas fellow? I wrote this Bible study over 5 years ago but it is one that stays with my spirit. I look it up and reread it often. I will share what I wrote then... with some new thoughts added in....

When I think of endurance, keeping the faith and finishing well I always think of Paul. As he sat chained in a Roman prison, waiting the time of his execution, he wrote to Timothy:

2 Timothy 4:6-8 For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure is at hand. 7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8 Finally, there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His appearing.

Paul was confident that he had endured to the end and had finished well.
Sadly, just a few sentences later he writes.

2 Timothy 4:10 for Demas has forsaken me, having loved this present world, and has departed for Thessalonica-Crescens for Galatia, Titus for Dalmatia.

Who is Demas? He is mentioned 2 other times in the Bible in Col 4:14 and Phil 1:24. He is called a fellow worker along with Mark, Aristarchus and Luke.
W. D. Thomas pointed out that the "word implies that two people are working closely together as partners, sharing work and responsibility." He goes on to say that Demas was a "close confidant of Paul, sharing the Apostle's vision of winning the world for God" (1983-84: 179)

So all we really know is that he is obviously a man who had ministered with Paul during some hard times. He was with Paul during his first imprisonment in Rome. 
Much of what we discern about Demas is speculation. But I would venture to speculate that Demas didn't join Paul's ministry team with the intention that he would later desert Paul in Paul's darkest hours. I would say he expected to stand firm and finish well. Yet here it is approximately 5 years later and Paul is saying Demas has forsaken him. The Greek work 'forsaken' means 'to abandon, desert, leave in straits, leave helpless, leave in the lurch, let one down' It is the same word Jesus used on the cross when He cried out, "My God, My God, why have you forsaken Me?" (Matt 27:46; Mark 15:34). It is also the word used in Hebrews 13:5 where the Lord's promise, "I will never leave you nor forsake you," is recalled by the author of Hebrews.
 I love that Paul doesn't launch into some long drawn out explanation of why Demas left. He doesn't rationalize and make excuses for him nor does he berate and belittle him. He just plainly states the underlying issue "Having Loved this Present World"
Let's look at 

James 4:4 "Adulterers and[a] adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God."

James is condemning even friendship with the world, Paul says Demas "loved this present world." Demas loved the present world. Paul loved the world to come. Paul is speaking of his death, the judgment of Christ and the rewards he now knows he will receive.
Paul was living in light of the coming world. Paul loved the future world, the eternal kingdom of the King of kings and Lord of lords. Paul not only lived for the kingdom, he was about to die for it. He speaks of his coming death like some might talk about their flight schedule: "The time of my departure is at hand." He knew that this life is but a vapor. He wasn't living or dying for this world.

What was it that drew Demas away? Was it fear that he too might be martyred if he stayed with Paul? Was it a desire to get away from the conditions in the prison? It could have been as simple as wanting a bed to sleep in and decent food to eat. Paul doesn't tell us if it was fame, fortune, or simple gratification of his flesh. In any case, Demas was more concerned with this present world than he was with the world to come. One commentary stated, "In the time of trial his courage failed. Death seemed to threaten, and as he clung to life, he fled" (Dr. B.W. Johnson, The People's New Testament with Explanatory Notes, vol. 2, p. 283).

Either way we are left with a sobering look at the life of Demas. He didn't finish well. We never hear of him again. We don't know what finally happened to Demas. We don't know if he ever repented or not, we are just left with "Demas, having loved this present world, has deserted me."

1 John 2:15-17 Do Not Love This World
15 Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the love of the Father in you. 16 For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions. These are not from the Father, but are from this world. 17 And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever.

And this is what has been on my heart and my mind the past few days. Watching so many people I know who used to love God, serve God, minister for God... being drawn away by a love for this world. John makes it quite clear here, not only does he command us "Do not Love this World" but he gives us very compelling reasons for why we should not love this world. 

John clearly states "if any one loves the world, love for the Father is not in him".

Let's get back to Demas for a minute. Paul said "Demas having loved this present world" forsook him. Yes, you say, he forsook Paul, but that doesn't mean he forsook Jesus. John just told us YOU CAN'T LOVE THE WORLD AND GOD AT THE SAME TIME! Love for the world pushes out love for God and love for GOD will push out love for the world!
John Piper states about these verses "The reason love for the world excludes love for God is that all that is in the world is not of God. In other words, it's just empty talk to say that you love God if you love what is not of God."

There are 3 avenues the enemy will use to draw the believer away from their love for the Lord.
1. The lust of the flesh. What makes me feel good physically, wrong desires of the heart. These desires are shaped entirely by our impulses and not by the Spirit of God. Sexual sins, gluttony, drug abuse, and drunkenness are the obvious red flags but let's get even more real here, how about the desire for comfort or happiness apart from God. 

2. The lust of the eyes. These desires come by what we see with our physical eyes. These cause us to become greedy, materialistic and full of envy. 

3. The pride of life - when our motives start with our own arrogance, boastfulness and self-centeredness; Rather than bowing down and trusting God, we rely on ourselves. 

But John says all this is "passing away" or "fading away". Each day we are faced with many choices which will ultimately prove whether or not we are in love with this present world. There will always be things pulling our attention off God onto this world. But the pleasures of sing are temporary. The lust of the flesh trust man's judgement, feelings, and temporary highs instead of relying and waiting on God's Word!

There is a battle that takes place daily, even moment by moment, between the Spirit and the flesh. 

Galatians 5:17 says, “For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please.”

Demas had been a faithful servant of the Lord, and a trusted companion of the apostle Paul. He served the greatest cause, and he served alongside some of the Lord's most devoted disciples. This however did not keep him from the wiles of Satan, the lure of the world, and the lusts of the fleshly nature.

We must never let our guard down, or lose sight of the prize. What is the prize? His appearing! Jesus was Paul's reward and He is our reward too.

Listen to James warning again:
James 4:4 Do you not know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world just makes himself an enemy of God.
Demas, once disciple and evangelist, "having loved this present world,"
abandoned Paul in the hour of his greatest need, and returned to the pursuits of this present age. God help us not to follow in his path.

I want to finish well. I want to endure. I want to be counted like those in Revelation of whom it is said.


Revelation 12:11 "And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, and they did not love their lives to the death."

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